Even if you've already rehashed it a hundred times.
Wednesday, October 28 · 8:30 PM ET / 5:30 PM PT · Online
Save My Free Seat →Wedding planning brings every unspoken difference to the surface at once: the budget, the guest list, whose family gets a say. And the loops don't end at the altar. Left alone, they harden into resentment and "this is just how we are."
The good news: the loop isn't the problem. It's a signal. And once you can read it, you can break it.
Why the dishes, the money, or the holiday fight is really a smoke alarm, not the fire. Plus the three signs you're stuck in a deeper disagreement you haven't named yet.
How you can say everything perfectly and still be negotiating the wrong thing. You'll see the push-and-pull pattern that keeps one of you chasing and the other shutting down, and why neither of you is the villain.
A simple three-step way to stop circling the same argument. You won't just hear about it. You'll try it on one of your own fights during the workshop.
"Most communication problems aren't communication problems. They're values problems wearing a communication costume."
When there's no inherited script for how a relationship "should" work, you get more freedom. You also get more unspoken assumptions about roles, family, money, and the future. This workshop is built for that reality, including chosen family, family of origin, and everything in between.
This is for you if:
I'm Dena Eve, a relationship coach (not a therapist) for partners preparing to marry or move in together. I help you do the work wedding planning leaves out, so you can fail-proof your marriage, not just your wedding day.
No. This is a coaching workshop focused on practical tools for your relationship. It isn't a substitute for therapy.
It's best together, but you'll still get a lot out of it on your own.
Only if you want to. During the live exercise you'll work privately, and sharing in the chat is completely optional.
Register below and we'll send you the link and a reminder before we start.